We have two sons and one daughter, and they have all started their own families. Both of my sons live at their wives’ homes. My older son just had a child, which made my husband and me very happy. We went to their house the day they were released from the hospital, together with the baby and my daughter-in-law. We brought gifts, including money, but my daughter-in-law and her mother did not appear.

We were there for approximately an hour, and they didn’t even offer us coffee. The bride did not even accept the soft toy I gave as a gift. But who returns a gift? If my daughter-in-law had always been like this, I would not have been surprised. We had a wonderful relationship before. We spoke over the phone and had a terrific rapport.After the kid was born, her attitude toward us dramatically altered.

My son can’t say anything because he lives in their home. My spouse and I came home unhappy. Later, I contacted my daughter-in-law numerous times to encourage her to come see us, but she refused. I recently discovered from my son that she is not breastfeeding the baby, and I feel bad for my grandchild because of that. But I can’t say anything to her.

My relatives and acquaintances ask how my grandson is doing, and I’m at a loss for words. I’m embarrassed to admit that I have only seen my grandchild once. I proposed to my son that we meet the baby for a walk, but he said the baby is still very tiny and we’ll go for a walk when he’s a little older.

My mother’s flat was passed down to me. At first, I considered selling the apartment and distributing the earnings equally among my children. Then my husband said there was no need for that. He chose to renovate it and rent it out. My spouse believes that with sons like ours, we have no future. We need to think about our own old age. I agree with my hubby.