Discussing property ownership in a marriage, particularly when one partner has bought a house on their own, can present some intricate challenges.

Money matters can often lead to conflicts, even between couples who are very close. Bethany is thrilled to be able to buy her own house, but she is adamant about not allowing her husband to co-own it. She firmly believes that since she purchased it with her family’s money, it should be solely hers. Her decision left her husband furious, and his words deeply affected her. She contacted us seeking guidance.

My husband and I have been married for 8 years. We’ve been renting a house because purchasing our own home was not within our financial means. In a recent turn of events, my father’s passing led me to make the difficult decision of selling his old apartment and some of his cherished possessions. This unexpected turn of events ultimately provided me with the means to purchase a new home for my family. My husband strongly believes that, as my life partner, he should also have joint ownership of the house.

When I rejected, he said, «Then use your money to pay me back all my rent throughout the years. At least half of it, since you lived with me and didn’t contribute financially.»

His words sent a wave of shock through me as he suggested that our marriage and future together might be in jeopardy if I refused. Actually, I haven’t been employed since we got married. I chose to stay at home and focus on raising our son.

Throughout all these years, my husband has been the one taking care of our financial needs, ensuring that the rent is always covered.

However, it does not necessarily imply that he should automatically have joint ownership of the house that was purchased using only my father’s money. MY money.

I would love to hear your thoughts on what course of action I should take.»